Getting into, being in and enjoying a romantic relationship is, as it turns out, a fairly complex thing to do. I've spent much of my adult life single, and yet the odd relationship does seem to creep up on me here and there. It's not just the dynamics of dating, but the societal pressure, the wedding-industrial complexes, and the pity of the poor, single and alone women that really get to me. So, please, enjoy my opinions on this topic!